Almost time to be an adult again!…..almost.

It has been such a nice summer! Drinking, playing with friends, child-like activities spread throughout my weeks….. ahhh….. what a life! Realizing that in just 2 weeks my beautiful children will have to return to their normal fall through spring school activities makes me feel a tad sad. Not “I think I am going to cry” sad, but more of the “wow, I really enjoyed the last few months and it’s time for change” kind of sad. I will miss the relaxed schedules and bare feet. And I will for sure miss being able to say “Sure we can stay up and have another drink, we don’t have to be any where in the morning!” Just like when I was a kid.

So, what makes this summer different then past summers, as an adult? Well, I am pretty sure it has everything to do with embracing my personal power of life control mind-set. Another words, using what I have learned to take control and enjoy my moments no matter what they may be! I have found the secret to happiness! It involves relaxing my mind, body and spirit to a level of LOVE. It involves realizing that I need not take on the worries of others and just go with what feels “good and right” even if it’s just for that moment! Did I let some things GO? yes, I sure did. Like a couple of jobs that were making me feel anxiety. I let go blogging for a few weeks at a time (and NOT feel bad about it), there was also another computer job project that I was trying to do just for the sake of money, it was really stressing me out, so let it go – I did! I switched up priorities to ones that made more sense for me and gave me a feeling of “fun” (and calm stomach!) Therefore my summer has felt more child-like, more FUN! Did a few things get pushed aside like house work or yard work? For sure, however, it’s still there and had I pushed too hard to be all and do all, I wouldn’t be writing this right now. It will all get done (and I didn’t lose any friends over the lack of finished projects either!) The kids will be at school for most of the day soon, and I will feel comfortable completing the unfinished whatever… We don’t have anyone to impress but our selves. And as long as we love and respect our decisions, more impressive situations will occur! Trying to LIVE IN THE MOMENT is the way of a child. It’s a feeling of freedom and joy. It makes your path clearer and your experiences fuller! Live like a child today, you will be happy that you did!!  Best wishes always… until next time….

From the Heart,



To Party or Not to Party, that is the question???

Well I have been gone for a couple of days, not from my home, just from thinking too deeply. Sounds funny, I know, however, every once in a while I like to take a break and test my self and my beliefs. What I really mean is that I do not intentionally try to crash, I just realize it after I have taken a turn on my path. Sticking to what you are trying to do whether it be physical, mental or spiritual development, can be quite trying on one’s EGO. I think of myself as one who gives off an energy of  strength and stability, at least most of the time, but every now and then, I let my hair down and push caution to the wind! I have tons of fun and find myself enjoying my moments quite grandly. On the down side, I also find that my body is tired and what I would call lazy! Now I’m not out clubbing or partying ’till wee hours of the night, just chill’in with my hubs and a friend or two, having some drinks, playing some music (listening to others playing some music) watching late night movies, enjoying a glass of wine (did I already say that?) **** Oh, side note..**** Here is a topic I want to get into some day also, “what effects does ‘Mary-Jane’ (and if you have no idea what I am talking about, then ‘good’, you are obviously too young!) have in regards to our source connect or lack there of..??? ******* Anyway, draining myself with my choices of how I am spending my time, actually can confuse me. Why? because while I am living in the moment having a grand time, not worrying about much of anything (which is exactly what we want to be doing on a daily basis) I end up feeling more detached and foggy-like in the brain. On the flip side – When I choose to, let’s say, stay all put together and keep my hair pinned up, I feel in more control and a bit clearer. Does this make any sense? One might say, well that’s easy… Stay clear of that which dulls the senses and keep pinned up, right? But we all like to have some fun, yet I have seen those who have way too much fun, regularly, and they are quite miserable when they are not partaking in the ‘fun’! I am  not one who chooses that type of path, only because I want to keep my vibration raised and have control over my personal movie of life. So, I just answered my own questions, didn’t I? I do believe this has been one of my struggles for many lifetimes, and that is BALANCE. Balance is the key to a steady and easy life! Practice my deliberate creator methods, including connect with source and feed my body with nutrients and exercise gently and regularly. Have fun with friends and family on the occasions that it will count, while making it a point to sincerely enjoy my time with self and others w/o the need to bring external elements into my experience. Yet, Red Wine is so very yummy, hhmmmm…. I will keep you posted on my efforts! (And just so you know, one glass suites me just fine – I am not consumed with the consumption of anything, I am a Pisces and I know better (we have an addictive personality, bummer!))

P.S. – The main reason for this conversation is that when I am deliberately being very clear minded, body and soul, my intuitive abilities really, really soar… so the things that we put into our bodies (not just our minds) can have a major effect on our self-spiritual connect, and I know this because I test myself and fully recognize all the effects by listening intently to my body. When I eat proper and consume liquids that benefit my physical body and add nutrients that I need and sleep well, then add in meditations and loving thoughts all rolled up into each day…. the effects of my outside world become quite amazing! The universal laws make great sense and things fall into place so nicely and peacefully. It is one of the best and most important processes in regards to body, mind, spirit connect. I am sure that you know many people who treat themselves very negatively (or yourself) with either (or both) physical consumption or mental/emotional stresses and would love nothing more than to see a change for them (or self) in a grand positive way. Every little thing does matter and we also need to learn from all the ‘little’ things that our bodies/source are trying to tell us.  Good Luck and Positive energy to you and yours, always…


Changing Blog Subject For (well, until I decide to change back!)

I am not actually changing the full subject, more like the context. I have decided (at least for a bit) to title my blog (instead of making a whole new blog, which I could do and add to my 5 billion other things that I keep adding to my life) “The day in the life of a Deliberate Creator” What does that mean? Well, it means that my intention is to blog every day in regards to what I experienced that day while always keeping in mind what I am teaching others about, which is the law of attraction and deliberate intent. So, how does an intuitive, know it all (in regards to the l.o.a and soul lessons, etc.), really live her life day-to-day? One may think that it should be all roses, right? After all, I know all the rules to making the thoughts of a great life, a reality! It should be a piece of cake and a chocolate one at that! However, have you ever known a psychic whose life just fell apart, and all you wanted to say is “Didn’t you ‘see’ that coming?” I know that I have a great sense of humor (after all I do have 3 kids, all under the age of 12 and a very funny husband (who is also an amazing musician -“he reads my blog, too”) So, this should be an interesting journey. I will do my best to be honest and write the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth or at least really close… I think that being a teacher of any subject and truly living it out, can be somewhat difficult (at least when it involves the heart and souls of others.) Well, I guess if you’re a math teacher……. (do we really use ‘all’ that in our adulthood??) Anyway, being a guide to others in the art of life can wear at times because you want to be the best soul you can be and  really ‘practice what you preach.’ I have 3 children, 1 husband (that’s enough) 1 200lb American mastiff dog, 1 guinea pig, 1 turtle, 2 lizards, 1 snake, 1 house, 1 pole barn (actually that’s my hubbies) 4.5 acers of land, 1 part-time job as both a front desk/manager and hair dresser (apprentice – thought it would be extra fun to also learn how to do hair), 1 part-time job as a dance teacher and fitness trainer, my children need to be  driven to school (20 minutes each way) every day (great school!), and in between I practice life coaching with others and once a month have a counseling session at my home with a group of lovely people, in regards to the law of attraction. I also have my wonderful blog and a book in the editing process with 2 more on the way and an idea of something that I need to patent (invention) and I want to write a novel! Oh, I also like to have a lot of fun with friends and family and enjoy the sun! I’m a Pisces (just in case you were wondering.)

Wow, that was exhausting, even for me…. Another words, how can I have time to practice the law of attraction in my day-to-day life experiences? Well, we will find out. So, starting soon I will have a mix of old and new. But I will for sure, hopefully, help others by giving examples of my day and what I do to try my best to keep on track to living and receiving the life that I desire (along with doing my best to appreciate that which I now have!) Wish me luck, I have never written so close to the heart before, but that is what we’re all here for anyway, isn’t it? Please feel free to give me feedback on this idea. I love to connect with others and hope this will bring out others on their journeys to enlightenment (or be just plain FUN!)

From the heart always,