The not so secret, secret to abundance…

The secret is quite easy, really! Just appreciate what you have today!

What have you appreciated today?

Go ahead, make a list of all the wonderful things and experiences in your life! Having a hard time? Look away for a moment. What do you see going on around you? There is always someone having a more difficult experience in life! Only glance at them long enough to make a quick mental note then switch your mind gears back to yourself. Now… what do you have to appreciate about your own journey? Practice looking at the beauty that is within your world! The better you get at this, the more abundance will follow!


Changing Blog Subject For (well, until I decide to change back!)

I am not actually changing the full subject, more like the context. I have decided (at least for a bit) to title my blog (instead of making a whole new blog, which I could do and add to my 5 billion other things that I keep adding to my life) “The day in the life of a Deliberate Creator” What does that mean? Well, it means that my intention is to blog every day in regards to what I experienced that day while always keeping in mind what I am teaching others about, which is the law of attraction and deliberate intent. So, how does an intuitive, know it all (in regards to the l.o.a and soul lessons, etc.), really live her life day-to-day? One may think that it should be all roses, right? After all, I know all the rules to making the thoughts of a great life, a reality! It should be a piece of cake and a chocolate one at that! However, have you ever known a psychic whose life just fell apart, and all you wanted to say is “Didn’t you ‘see’ that coming?” I know that I have a great sense of humor (after all I do have 3 kids, all under the age of 12 and a very funny husband (who is also an amazing musician -“he reads my blog, too”) So, this should be an interesting journey. I will do my best to be honest and write the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth or at least really close… I think that being a teacher of any subject and truly living it out, can be somewhat difficult (at least when it involves the heart and souls of others.) Well, I guess if you’re a math teacher……. (do we really use ‘all’ that in our adulthood??) Anyway, being a guide to others in the art of life can wear at times because you want to be the best soul you can be and  really ‘practice what you preach.’ I have 3 children, 1 husband (that’s enough) 1 200lb American mastiff dog, 1 guinea pig, 1 turtle, 2 lizards, 1 snake, 1 house, 1 pole barn (actually that’s my hubbies) 4.5 acers of land, 1 part-time job as both a front desk/manager and hair dresser (apprentice – thought it would be extra fun to also learn how to do hair), 1 part-time job as a dance teacher and fitness trainer, my children need to be  driven to school (20 minutes each way) every day (great school!), and in between I practice life coaching with others and once a month have a counseling session at my home with a group of lovely people, in regards to the law of attraction. I also have my wonderful blog and a book in the editing process with 2 more on the way and an idea of something that I need to patent (invention) and I want to write a novel! Oh, I also like to have a lot of fun with friends and family and enjoy the sun! I’m a Pisces (just in case you were wondering.)

Wow, that was exhausting, even for me…. Another words, how can I have time to practice the law of attraction in my day-to-day life experiences? Well, we will find out. So, starting soon I will have a mix of old and new. But I will for sure, hopefully, help others by giving examples of my day and what I do to try my best to keep on track to living and receiving the life that I desire (along with doing my best to appreciate that which I now have!) Wish me luck, I have never written so close to the heart before, but that is what we’re all here for anyway, isn’t it? Please feel free to give me feedback on this idea. I love to connect with others and hope this will bring out others on their journeys to enlightenment (or be just plain FUN!)

From the heart always,


Are you thinking what I think your thinking?

I had a neat experience yesterday. Well, it was neat for me because I am always viewing things from an unusual perspective, or at least I think so. Anyway, the following is all about perception and how it affects our reality…

I had to go into a friend/co worker’s home unexpectedly, and the whole time I was there (which was not more than 10 min.) she fussed and apologized for her messy house as she ran around like a tornado picking up everything in sight! Now I, being a mother of 3 and having a 200 lb. dog, would never, ever in a million years judge someone on their house appearance. However, I totally understood where she was coming from, because I have been there (freaking out about new people coming over and cleaning up my house, foolishly worried about what they might think of me!) So, to finish up my story.. after being back at work, which I love, for about 45 minutes, my friend says to me, “I know you are judging me for my messy house!” Now that was quite a bold statement, considering the fact that I haven’t even thought about her or her house for even a millisecond since leaving her home (other than, it was such a cute home.) Funny, huh?

We all have our own, unique and personal perception of every single experience that we are having in each moment that we have them. You do not ‘know’ what I am thinking and I  do not ‘know’ what you are thinking. While we may all be siting in the same room, hearing the same words, looking at the same pictures, watching the same exact scene…… we are all viewing, hearing, tasting, etc. differently.

So, what makes us think we know what is going on in the person’s head next to us? Ego.

We sit all day and talk to ourselves and pick at every little detail of life, with ourselves, guessing and assuming what is in the minds of all, with ourselves.

So we tend to think that “ourself” (I know that’s not proper english – “see I just thought you thought something that you might or might not of..”ha,ha!) has the ‘correct’ assumption and perception of each experience.

Here’s the tricky part, Our perception is correct because it is all we have and is unique to each of us, which means we have a choice on how we want to see every situation, because it does not matter what the person next to you is thinking (they are having their own unique, little party going on in their own world!) The part that is not good is wasting our time making up in our own minds what the other person is viewing and thinking. Remember, we are all in the same world, yet we are all on our own stage – directing our own scenes – at all times!

So please do not waste your time worrying about what the other person ‘might’ be thinking. They are ‘not’ thinking ‘that’ and even if they were, what good would it do for your arrangement of your life experiences to let your mind dwell on anything that is negative? Take control of your path and next time you want to make up what the other ‘guys’ thinking about you, make sure it involves something magical and positive!!!!

From the heart, always,